Because some days you feel unstoppableālike a dragonāand other days like a potato. And that’s perfectly okay.
š§ Before We Dive Into the āBoring Stuffā…
Letās be honest. Before you worry about reps, sets, or how deep your squat should goā
thereās one thing you really need to understand first:
ā Not perfection
ā
Consistency
ā
Discipline
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The mindset that keeps you going when motivation disappears
Because if you donāt get this part right, even the best workout plan wonāt save you. š
š According to the Stats…
Most people quit the gym within the first three months.
But why exactly?
š„ Unrealistic Expectations
Many beginners walk in thinking theyāll look like their fitness idols in a few weeks.
But newsflash:
š Thatās not how it works
š Youāre not them
š And honestly? They probably havenāt eaten carbs since 2017
Everyone is differentāgenetics, lifestyle, and diet all play a role.
So stop comparing yourself to others.
šÆ Compare yourself to your past self. Thatās your only competition.
š Motivation Fades. It Always Does.
At first, you feel unstoppable:
šŖ Motivation is sky-high
š¶ You make a new gym playlist
š You buy all the gear
Thenā¦ it hits.
The routine feels repetitive (I memorized all Spotify workout playlistsādamn).
Youāre sore.
Youāre tired.
And suddenly, the gym starts feeling like a chore instead of therapy.
Iāve been there.
š„ My body had never touched a dumbbell in 27 years.
The first time I picked up a 17-pounder?
Boomālow back pain activated.
Thatās when I thought:
āI refuse to be weak for life. Shopping bags wonāt carry themselves when Iām old.ā
šÆ David Laid Said It Best
āPeople start the gym full of motivation, ready to get shredded. But after a few weeks or months, that motivation disappears, and they quit. Thatās the moment where, if you push through, you realize fitness isnāt just about your bodyāit changes your entire life.ā
Sound familiar?
š„ Hyped on Day 1
š¤ Reconsidering life choices by Week 3 ā āWhy am I even doing this?ā
š What NOT to Do: Learn From Me
I used to avoid anything difficult in my competitive life:
š Skipped butterfly stroke (the most hated in swim forums š
ātrust me)
Same mindset followed me to the gym:
š¦µ I avoided squats because leg press felt easierāand my back didnāt scream at me for it
But hereās the truth:
āPeople donāt avoid hard things because theyāre lazy.
They just think there’s an easier way to get the same result.ā
š£ Spoiler: There isnāt.
š So, Whatās the Lesson? The Right Mindset.
Now, if youāve read this farā¦ you probably want the solution to all your problems.
(Relax, Iām not Zarathustra š
)
Hereās what works for me:
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Consistency beats perfection
Even when everythingās the sameāsleep, diet, supplementsāsome workouts feel amazing, others feel like punishment.
š§ Feel like a dragon? Go for that PR.
š®āšØ Feel like a potato? You still did more than the couch.
š Listen to your body
Weāre human, not machines. Thatās why deload weeks exist. Take them when needed.
š§ Perspective = power
Today I had a terrible workoutā¦
But I played with dumbbells I couldnāt lift when I started.
š„ Face hard things now, or theyāll hit you later
I skipped squats for months. When I finally went backā
ā”ļø The empty barbell said: āWelcome back, weakling.ā
And hey, donāt worry too much about the wrinkles.
They said lifting would give me gainsā¦
They didnāt mention the wrinkles from all the effort.
At this point, my face is doing more reps than my biceps!
š Final Takeaway
š Remember, consistency is key. Keep showing up, stay patient, and be proudāeven on tough days. You’ve already beaten everyone who never left the couch!
The right mindset applies to your workoutsābut if you think about it, it applies to life too.
š¬ Iād love to know your tips! What helps YOU push through those low-motivation days? Drop your experience in the commentsāI read every single one!
š Next blog: A simple 3-day workout plan for real humans.
Not for robots. Not for TikTok influencers.
Just for you. šŖ
Hi Manu,
discipline, consistency, the right mindset, and passion help maintain strong motivation and prevent giving up.
On the contrary, choosing the easiest path rarely brings benefits!
<3