Because some days you feel unstoppableâlike a dragonâand other days like a potato. And that’s perfectly okay.
đ§ Before We Dive Into the âBoring Stuffâ…
Letâs be honest. Before you worry about reps, sets, or how deep your squat should goâ
thereâs one thing you really need to understand first:
â Not perfection
â
Consistency
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Discipline
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The mindset that keeps you going when motivation disappears
Because if you donât get this part right, even the best workout plan wonât save you. đ
đ According to the Stats…
Most people quit the gym within the first three months.
But why exactly?
đ„ Unrealistic Expectations
Many beginners walk in thinking theyâll look like their fitness idols in a few weeks.
But newsflash:
đ Thatâs not how it works
đ Youâre not them
đ And honestly? They probably havenât eaten carbs since 2017
Everyone is differentâgenetics, lifestyle, and diet all play a role.
So stop comparing yourself to others.
đŻ Compare yourself to your past self. Thatâs your only competition.
đ Motivation Fades. It Always Does.
At first, you feel unstoppable:
đȘ Motivation is sky-high
đ¶ You make a new gym playlist
đ You buy all the gear
Then⊠it hits.
The routine feels repetitive (I memorized all Spotify workout playlistsâdamn).
Youâre sore.
Youâre tired.
And suddenly, the gym starts feeling like a chore instead of therapy.
Iâve been there.
đ„ My body had never touched a dumbbell in 27 years.
The first time I picked up a 17-pounder?
Boomâlow back pain activated.
Thatâs when I thought:
âI refuse to be weak for life. Shopping bags wonât carry themselves when Iâm old.â
đŻ David Laid Said It Best
âPeople start the gym full of motivation, ready to get shredded. But after a few weeks or months, that motivation disappears, and they quit. Thatâs the moment where, if you push through, you realize fitness isnât just about your bodyâit changes your entire life.â
Sound familiar?
đ„ Hyped on Day 1
đ€ Reconsidering life choices by Week 3 â âWhy am I even doing this?â
đ What NOT to Do: Learn From Me
I used to avoid anything difficult in my competitive life:
đ Skipped butterfly stroke (the most hated in swim forums đ
âtrust me)
Same mindset followed me to the gym:
đŠ” I avoided squats because leg press felt easierâand my back didnât scream at me for it
But hereâs the truth:
âPeople donât avoid hard things because theyâre lazy.
They just think there’s an easier way to get the same result.â
đŁ Spoiler: There isnât.
đ So, Whatâs the Lesson? The Right Mindset.
Now, if youâve read this far⊠you probably want the solution to all your problems.
(Relax, Iâm not Zarathustra đ
)
Hereâs what works for me:
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Consistency beats perfection
Even when everythingâs the sameâsleep, diet, supplementsâsome workouts feel amazing, others feel like punishment.
đ§ Feel like a dragon? Go for that PR.
đźâđš Feel like a potato? You still did more than the couch.
đ Listen to your body
Weâre human, not machines. Thatâs why deload weeks exist. Take them when needed.
đ§ Perspective = power
Today I had a terrible workoutâŠ
But I played with dumbbells I couldnât lift when I started.
đ„ Face hard things now, or theyâll hit you later
I skipped squats for months. When I finally went backâ
âĄïž The empty barbell said: âWelcome back, weakling.â
And hey, donât worry too much about the wrinkles.
They said lifting would give me gainsâŠ
They didnât mention the wrinkles from all the effort.
At this point, my face is doing more reps than my biceps!
đ Final Takeaway
đ Remember, consistency is key. Keep showing up, stay patient, and be proudâeven on tough days. You’ve already beaten everyone who never left the couch!
The right mindset applies to your workoutsâbut if you think about it, it applies to life too.
đŹ Iâd love to know your tips! What helps YOU push through those low-motivation days? Drop your experience in the commentsâI read every single one!
đ Next blog: A simple 3-day workout plan for real humans.
Not for robots. Not for TikTok influencers.
Just for you. đȘ
Hi Manu,
discipline, consistency, the right mindset, and passion help maintain strong motivation and prevent giving up.
On the contrary, choosing the easiest path rarely brings benefits!
<3